Filipino weddings are rich with symbolism. Here’s how to blend heritage with your style.
1) Pamamanhikan
A meeting of families to ask for the bride’s hand and align on plans.
Modern take: Turn it into a cozy dinner where both families share stories and expectations.
2) Despedida de Soltera
A send-off party honoring the bride and her family.
Modern take: Make it a mixed gathering for both sides, with speeches and slideshow.
3) Principal Sponsors (Ninong/Ninang)
Mentors who guide your marriage.
Modern take: Invite sponsors who truly know you; ask them for short blessings during the reception.
4) Arras (Wedding Coins)
Coins symbolize mutual support and prosperity.
Modern take: Personalize with a keepsake box engraved with your vows.
5) Veil & Cord (Yugal)
The veil signifies unity; the cord symbolizes the bond.
Modern take: Use minimalist pieces that match your palette; mention their meaning in your missalette/program.
6) Unity Rituals
Candles, sand, wine, or knot-tying.
Modern take: Choose one that reflects your story; keep it short and visual.
7) Money Dance (Sayaw ng Pera)
Guests “pin” bills as blessings.
Modern take: Provide discreet pouches or a wishing well; play two upbeat tracks to keep it lively.
8) Barong & Filipiniana
Classic barong Tagalog and modern Filipiniana silhouettes.
Modern take: Mix textures; let entourage wear coordinated but comfortable versions.
9) Cuisine & Music
Serve family recipes alongside regional favorites; add a kundiman or rondalla set.
Modern take: Curate a tasting menu with a short cultural note on each dish.
10) Community Spirit (Bayanihan)
Invite loved ones to take small roles—readings, ushering, or setup.
Modern take: Create a volunteer signup section on your wedding site.
Styling & program tips
- Keep rituals under 10 minutes each to maintain flow.
- Provide a program card explaining traditions for non-Filipino guests.
- Coordinate with your officiant so symbolism fits within ceremony length.
FAQ
- Do we need every tradition? No—choose the ones that resonate.
- Church vs. beach setups? Traditions work in both; just adapt attire and logistics.
- Eco-friendly exits? Bubbles, LED wands, confetti poppers—skip live animals/balloons.
We’ll help script and stage each ritual beautifully. Get a custom program draft in 48 hours.